5 Signs that You’ve Found The Person Meant For You
Here are some signs to know whether the person you are dating is indeed “The One.”
You can live with his imperfections. Okay, so he sometimes forgets important dates like your birthday (ouch). But that doesn’t mean he won’t be a sweet, loving, husband every single day of the year. If you are willing to look beyond his flaws and pay more attention to his positive traits then he could be the one. After all, nobody is perfect (even you.) Just remember, there are deal breakers like being physically or emotionally abusive, being condescending, selfish, disrespectful and dishonest. If he is any of this then cut the cord, pronto!
- He shares your values, dreams and goals. There are some things about your life and future which to you are non-negotiable and that’s fine. You two should be going in the same direction in terms of where you’re headed. Kids? Successful career? Live abroad? If you share the same plans then great! Two people who love each other and are working towards common goals is a great partnership.
- You’ve had your share of challenges but you’re still going strong. You know the saying “what won’t kill you will only make you stronger”. It’s the same with relationships. Being able to feel scared and vulnerable together can strengthen your relationship. Dealing with struggles side by side is like putting your love to a test. And passing it with flying colors and will make you feel closer to each other.
- You bring out the best in each other. If you are perfectly happy with your current partner it shows in the other aspects of your life. A healthy relationship can be carried over to our other relationships, like with family, friends and even at work. Because you are secure in the knowledge of his love and support, you become more confident in yourself and are more likely to achieve great things.
It simply feels right. When you meet a person, you instantly create first impressions about him, depending on your gut feel or instinct. You can use that same ability to find out whether a guy is The One or not. Listen to what your inner voice is telling you about him. Trust your judgment. You’ll know when something feels healthy and right. If he makes you feel happy and content then you probably are.
When you’ve finally found The One, make sure you immortalize your relationship. One way of doing this is through Make It Mine’s Tower Love Note. It’s a perfect reminder of the love you both share.